Everyone is in the process of finding themselves, though we get caught up that we need to find ourselves within others. You’ll never find yourself within others and sometimes it takes just someone to take it away, where you lose yourself completely. You then return back to “self” but not knowing who you “truly” were before meeting someone and now it’s confusing because you wonder who you were in your past life. Reconnect with self, reconnect with who you are, your interests, your passion, do things by yourself, be with your own thoughts and reflect and then maybe you’ll do the work to find “self”. Good luck on your journey to finding self, we’re all in this together. I’m at peace.